Thursday, October 16, 2008

Room Number 121

How to start took almost 5 min.. was thinking of writing an article which wil cherish the hostel life tat most of us had.few days back wen ashok pinged me wishing me on ma bday we just remembered few moments tat we spent in Room Number 121

After di's marriage ma parents shifted to farm house n i initally felt ill take a private apartment but before searching, ma frnd maadhu told me to experience the hostel life .. he told me if u lik u continue else we can luk for a private apartment.But i had made up ma mind tat ill def dont wana stay in hostel but spending 2-3 days would neva harm.

so i stepped in Room 121 with ma luggage at around 5.30PM....Abt room ...It was a simple room ..it was in first floor with its window facing the cricket ground.Interiors were just 2 bed a reading table n a chair n ofcourse It had all posters of film starts,cars,models,some paintings some sketches stamped on wall... u can say i neva saw wat was wall color ;-) but perfect bachelors kind of room.

My initial reaction was .. hmmm not bad but mind said 2 days.. chethan u got to search an accmodaton soon.by the time i arranged ma living place gang of few neighbore roomies came in saying chol chai pay.. like a lamb i followed the sheeps heard . we reached the tea shop called "DOWNS" were we sat n ordered tea.by the time i sipped the last sip suresh became suri,hemant became hemi,prakash became pakki n maga macchi sala words started flowing in ma mouth fluently.. still confused was tat the effect of tea or was tat cos of the place wer we lived "HOSTEL" .

reaching room ma roomi switched on music n our talk began it went on on on.. talking abt their college,fun in class rooms,gossips,and ofcourse Gals !!Today we have system laptop ipod but none can replace tat crap old music system.

Around 11 PM we said boss we forgot to eat.. we all took our bikes n went to mathrumandalli circle(most of ppl knows KD road.. Kd roads starts from this circle)reaching we decided where to have food.after 10 min of discussion we used to attack one of the roadside fast food auto.
I laugh remembering the way we ate...if ma masala dosa comes first 10 hands would have finished it before i get the plate if other ordered poori he only used to get khali plate ... summarizing we neva ate wat we ordered !!!!Today we earn in thousands we visit star hotels but i always miss those stealing hands which comes to ma plate n grabs as much as it can , i miss those huge laughs on the street at 11 PM , i miss those night rides on bike, i miss those bike rides around ladies hostel.

Best part of hostel was the time wen someone comes from his home town !! haha. ull be killed if u go empty handed.A bag full of food stuffs would go empty in few seconds. today i have packs of snx laying in ma drw untouched from months but no one to steal it no one to fight for it.

Days passed ma roomi neva asked me did i lik the hostel n i neva told him tat i dont want to go!!
Things i learn being there were too adjust,to live with ppl who u met for the first time here in hostel,to gossip,to joke,to fight,to value money and most importand to help ..i rem me picking up ma hostel mets from nearby busstand at 2 AM.. i rem them helping me wen ma bike got punctured 20 KM away from mysore. they were just a ring ahead where as today if i wana call them they r away by a meeting by a con call by a never ending release but life goes on.

The best one was how to accommodate many guest in tat small room i realized tat its not how big the room is its how big ur heart i rem sometimes 8 ppl used to sleep talking gossiping whole night.I dont have any instance were our room light were off before 1 AM.Today we say we stay in 2BHK/3BHK may be with family or wit few Colleague or frnz n the talk wil be abt project abt hike abt PM/PL or max abt onsite.

I agree we cannot afford to have the same life again but def we can feel happy to cherish those memories and give a surprise call to ur hostel mates on a wk end as am gona do this week end ;-)
But still ill mis those stealing hands which takes food frm ma plate.

Monday, October 6, 2008

Happy Weekend!!!

Every monday starts with a big question -"what u did on week end ??" n the usual reply "Rocking dear".. slept.. dinner there.. shopped here..movie..sale. .. etc n life goes on getting ready for the another wk end.

I felt things will b different this wk end as ma eyes flashed wen i saw a mail saying "Old Age Visit On Sat!!" my schooling days passed ma eyes - we had visited the same old age home n i remembered those self promises saying that chethan u shud visit here frequently n do wat best u can... but gone are those promises.. i never even thought about them these many years;-(

Just opened the calender to check ma wk end plans.. had few but could easily say no to those.. A thread started in ma mind abt this event and countdown started tue->wed->thur->fri... packed ma bag wishing everyone a blasting wk end ahead!!!!

sat event was quite simple - we 20 odd ppl from our company had plans to visit an Old Age Home where "MAGRALENE" a lady was celebrating her 107 Bday(pls do belive the age) and we had planned few games for them n ofcourse snx!!

16 Km safar back home went on thinking abt how to make them feel comfortable?? wat to spk wat not to spk??...how wil they react??.. how to make them feel happy??..i reached home n told mom abt tomo event n i was surprised to hear that during her schooling she has visited the same old age home and on bed with ma eyes opened was thinking abt the old age.

I found many instance where i remembered ma parents.I remembered them when i was hungry.. wen i need pocket money.. when i need ma school fee.. wen i need to to buy bike n ofcourse to fill petrol.. wen i need money to go for a trip wit frnz.. wen i wanted to buy new cloths..when i got job..when i got ma first sal.. list went on n on but out of this list most of the time i remembered them "WHEN-I-NEED"ed them the most. what best we gave them??? push them to Old Age Home??(agree not all do the same.. but feel sad for those unlucky ones).
To my shock it was already half past nine wit ma mom screaming there is a limit to sleep ;-)told her that i have week-end fever of sleep n slept back!!!
Got a call from ashu tat afternoon asking abt the plans to reach there and what i shud not forget to bring(Ma Cam).

I picked her around 3 PM and we both reached there around 3.15PM and ma heart started beating a bit high than ever with same old unanswered questions.

As we stepped in i got a releaving sign.. wen i saw a nana sitting on a wheel chair said "Namaskara".. i felt i got ma first answer for the question wat to spk??? we entered the function hall beautifully decorated (credit goes to those 2 old aged ppl and their efforts to do it) .
We had the cake cutting ceremony follwed by snx,songs,dwinga boogi boogi dance, musical chair,couple award,amazing dance from a 95 yead old grana, we almost became a part of them in just 2 hrs.

As we spoke to those ppl abt their life we were surprise to hear them giving reasons of being here."they are working we wil get bored so we joined here"..."they are out of this town i cant adjust there so came here"..."am sick i heard that ill get best treatment here" not even a single out of hundred said that their children ditched them ;-(

We greeted all the sisters who took care of these ppl .. we said a bi bi wit a beautiful song ;) n I cud see sign of satsification in us.. i cud see joy in those old eyes..
I stepped out thinking how many old eyes would have related us with their son/daughter/grandchildren who just resides in their diminishing memories!!